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How are you going to hold my attention long enough for me to get an erection? I can decipher most things.
For example, I know that a guy who only wears newsboy caps is bald and has a problem with it. But what does busy mean?
What is a man really asking for when he asks that his next date be busy? Is he asking that she have hobbies? Does he have a specific of extracurricular activities that she should be engaged in?
Does book club need to occur twice a month or just once? Should her business hours span from sunrise to sunset? Should she volunteer all day Saturday and Sunday or is one day off per week acceptable?
No, that's not what he means. This isn't a literal request. Too busy to care about him, to ask anything of him, certainly to need anything of. Asking a woman to be busy is a man's way of asking for Mature women needing sex need only apply relationship with a woman that requires the least amount of engagement and commitment possible.
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You can date him, but you'd better be chill. So chill you almost don't exist. Too busy to give him a thought, apart from when he thinks about you, which -- Horny women in Bargersville, IN should know this from the get-go -- won't be.
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What do they think we're doing? How insulting can you be? Explain yourself, heathen. Why are you here? Our entire generation of single men seems to like to keep a toe in the water. Just one toe. Maybe not even the big one. Wanting something without wanting. Kind of doing things.
Sort of participating. Dating has become a contest of who can do the. And there isn't a prize at the end except more singleness.
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He's clearly got enough time to swipe through enough women to earn him a match or two to interview and determine her current level of daily obligations, so why not just leave out busy and stick to good ol' hookups he'll never text again?
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Because really, what women needed was another double standard. It's not OK. This isn't something men can.
I'm calling it out as the utter bullshit it actually is. You know what I miss? I think they need to come back with new additions. At least then we could search by preference, you know?
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What I haven't got time for is you. The man who wants "busy. I start my workday at am and end it around 12 hours later.
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I exhaust myself in an attempt to further my professional success because that's an area of life where I actually see return on investment. And in the spare moments I have to give to online dating in the hopes that those long days of mine might not start and end alone, I wouldn't dare waste even the rightward motion of my thumb with someone who is, essentially, just kidding. I don't want busy; I want hardworking. I don't want chill; I want interested.
I am not just kidding. I want real. And I don't care if that makes me less desirable to you. I don't care if my normal human emotions and reactions scare you away. I Busy guy looking for a girl want someone who can be scared away by availability. Someone who fears text messages. I don't want a coward. I want a man. A man who sees value in companionship, not burden.
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